I’m Free!!!

Confirmation arrived today. The judge granted decree absolute on April 10th. I am FREE. It is over. 2 years 3 months and 1 day since Ex dropped the bomb. I finally have closure. I can start building the new me. Beyond elated. So so so HAPPY!!!

Luck

I don’t want to tempt fate… But… I have had another spot of good luck. I’ve got a job!!!! It was confirmed last Friday and I started today. It’s doing something I’d never dreamed of doing. But it’s a decent salary. Flexible hours. Something well within my capabilities (low stress). It came out of the…

Consent

The judge has signed the order!!!!! Finally. I can now apply for decree absolute. The end is in sight. So exciting.

Me

When I started my blog, just over two years ago, I was so fearful about it being discovered by people who knew me. Maintaining absolute anonymity was paramount. Hence calling myself serenely sanguine (that’s not really my name) and never sharing proper pics. I was scared Ex would find my blog. Scared I’d be caught…

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I’m not doing very well with the promise I made to myself to blog at least once a week. Must do better. I’m done the catch ups though. I found them depressing. I don’t want to focus on the shit. I’m sick of the shit. I’ve had enough of the sick. Today is (or rather…

Catch up#4 FriENDS

This is a complex one. It will be rambling. Well done if you make it to the end. I suspect you won’t! Pre-bomb I had a very active social. I had a core group of people I considered to be real friends – my oldest pal S (we met when we were 9), people who’d…